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6 Ways to Honor the Military Veteran in Your Family

Veterans are men and women who have gone to the battlefield, a place civilians can never fully comprehend, and come back, rarely unscathed. Considering how harrowing war can be, it can be daunting to come up with a commensurate way of thanking our veteran family members for what they have sacrificed in the name of their country. It is with this worry in mind that we have compiled several suggestions you might consider when you have difficulty expressing your admiration and paying your respects.

A Simple “Thank You”

Whether you have the opportunity to tell your veteran in person or over the phone, know that many veterans go with little to no thanks for what they did. Alternatively, you could send a letter to veteran family members who live far away. The one benefit of a thank you letter over verbal gratitude is that it is tangible and will always serve as a reminder.

Offer Your Vehicle

Some veterans may make it home with a litany of medical issues or disabilities. Offering to drive him around and help out with errands is a simple way of honoring your veteran that also gives you an opportunity to listen to his stories.

Share The Stories

Even a single tour of duty is bound to fill your veteran with stories. Retelling the stories he shares with you is another way of honoring your veteran, allowing his antics to reach the hearts and minds of multiple generations. Know that there are several endeavors by various organizations who wish to get an account of every soldier’s story.

Get Them a Dog

A sizable portion of veterans of modern warfare come back with varying levels of PTSD; a mental issue that affects not only the veteran but that veteran’s friends and family. A companion dog undergoes special training to help traumatized veterans cope with their issues. Alternatively, your veteran may need a proper service animal to help him with tasks that might otherwise be difficult, if not impossible, to perform due to injuries incurred during their service.

Renovate Their Home

If your veteran became severely disabled during his service, his home may not properly accommodate his issues. If your veteran requires a wheelchair, you can do your part by working toward the installation of a ramp over the stairs, add chains to the pulls on lamps, lower the height of cabinets, and so on.

Help Them Find Work

Some veterans have a hard time finding work, possibly due to limited overlap in skill sets between the military and civilian worlds. Even offering to help your veterans draft an appealing resume is a great way to help them feel useful and bestow a renewed sense of purpose.

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